Sisters,
Do not assume any role in "catching" your man or "settling" for some half interested fella. Too many of my sisters are living frustrated about their guy's flaws, his passive nature or wandering eye. It's heart-breaking and all too real for me.
The checking off of that "relationship" box on your life list is not worth the turmoil of a dysfunctional relationship. You can trust the truth of that statement! I literally know what I'm talking about.
So you feel the fire of passion and hormonal chemistry? You're not the first one to deal with that... afterall we're all here aren't we. Just look at your feelings as biological science.
Okay then, here's an old phrase we learned in elementary school to help us learn how and remember how to put out a fire. STOP! DROP! ROLL! Remember that one?
STOP! Let God work in you and in your future spouse to bring out your flaws for fixing and your talents for testing. Patience is a much needed virtue in the sisterhood today.
DROP! Drop to your knees in prayer, focus your heart on growing up spiritually. Also do not neglect your emotional and financial maturity. You will need this to properly nuture and navigate even the best relationship!
ROLL! Roll all your worries to the cross and leave them there. God knows all about your biological clock, your unmet needs, your hopes and dreams. But tell Him about them still, it will help you feel better.
I love all yall (seriously), and this isn't directed at any one in particular. This is just a synposis of a dozen or so conversations with my sisters over the last week.
PS - I'm right there in it with yall! Let's cover each other in prayer. ❥
Do not assume any role in "catching" your man or "settling" for some half interested fella. Too many of my sisters are living frustrated about their guy's flaws, his passive nature or wandering eye. It's heart-breaking and all too real for me.
The checking off of that "relationship" box on your life list is not worth the turmoil of a dysfunctional relationship. You can trust the truth of that statement! I literally know what I'm talking about.
So you feel the fire of passion and hormonal chemistry? You're not the first one to deal with that... afterall we're all here aren't we. Just look at your feelings as biological science.
"That doesn't help", you say?
Okay then, here's an old phrase we learned in elementary school to help us learn how and remember how to put out a fire. STOP! DROP! ROLL! Remember that one?
STOP! Let God work in you and in your future spouse to bring out your flaws for fixing and your talents for testing. Patience is a much needed virtue in the sisterhood today.
DROP! Drop to your knees in prayer, focus your heart on growing up spiritually. Also do not neglect your emotional and financial maturity. You will need this to properly nuture and navigate even the best relationship!
ROLL! Roll all your worries to the cross and leave them there. God knows all about your biological clock, your unmet needs, your hopes and dreams. But tell Him about them still, it will help you feel better.
I love all yall (seriously), and this isn't directed at any one in particular. This is just a synposis of a dozen or so conversations with my sisters over the last week.
PS - I'm right there in it with yall! Let's cover each other in prayer. ❥
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